Since the year 2016 is fast approaching and 2015 is coming to an end, I guess you can almost conclude that you are going to be single as f*** for the rest of this year, lol. Don't mind me, your Mr. Right and Miss. Awesome might just be around the corner somewhere close. Don't give up yet. And if it doesn't happen this year, 2016 is a year filled with a world of promises and opportunities so give it a little more time. Don't rush that your bestie into asking you out or accepting your proposal just yet. The best things take time. Perhaps you also need to change some things you are doing wrong, or your approach. For example, maybe you don't go out at all, or you have no social life... Yeah, you are destined to meet Mr. /Miss Right but they don't always come up to your door and knock then introduce themselves as "Mr/Miss Right". You should endeavour to go out more, not necessarily to clubs or bar as some of you have said you wouldn't want to settle with someone you met in a controversial place. You can goto cinemas, even shopping mall sef, musical concerts , even random places like the market, or when your car breaks down on the highway, or she helped you pick out something in the lingerie section for your mum, I'm serious o. Just confirm it's his mum he is buying it for ooo.. lol, what I'm saying is you can meet the right one for you in some weird, hopeless places like Rihanna sang.
And maybe you have too much pride and shun almost every good guy/girl that comes your way, is itclaiming you are waiting for rich, tall, dark and handsome or for guy, maybe it's light skinned, average height, well rounded boobs and ass with that perfectly flat tummy, in short figure 8. Don't get me wrong, it's good to have certain qualities to hope for in your future partner but try to be realistic with some of them and agree that your happiness is what matters more not just the looks.
And if you are in each other's friend zone, maybe you should just ask her out already. It's that simple!!! If she says No, so what?? At least you won't carry the burden of not knowing in your heart!!! And ladies, if you like him, maybe you should tell him. Trust me. No matter how nice you are, he might not know you are doing it because you feel something more. Say it!!!
Finally, if you are still hurting over that heartbreak, please let it go away with 2015. Do not carry it into 2016. Don't ruin your future by holding on to the past. Stop giving yourself excuse to hurt. LET IT FRIGGING GO!!! Ask the Holy Spirit to help you.
And If you don't fall into any of this category, your time is coming too. Don't even stress out over it, my dear, the best is coming. Don't snatch someone else's man or girl. And the honest truth is of they were meant for you, they can't and won't be taken anyway *shrug*. If your man or girl left you, she wasn't it!! She wasn't the right one so be glad that they left. Good riddance!!! Remember God's timing is indeed the best, it is not of whom that runneth, but of God that shows the mercy. 2016 is your year baby!!!
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