Saturday, 5 December 2015

WHO ARE YOU??

                                 Today's  Question??
         There are sometimes that we, as humans, should sit ourselves down and try to evaluate who we really are. These are the times that we should ask ourselves questions like;"who am I? What are the things that I do? Are they good or bad? Am I good to others?
Whether we like it or not, who we are is perceived as a function of our interactions with others.
         Simply put, the first time I meet u, what I notice is your skin colour, dress, whatever you lay out there to be seen, as we go further to communicating with each other, your attitude and response gives me a subtle idea about who you really are. Now, if  you talked rude, or snubbed me, or smiled politely and answered politely too, or even behaved arrogantly, I pretty much conclude that how u reacted is who you are. What I'm getting at is, your attitude depicts who you are to people. Whether you are warm inside, or nice to the less privileged or whatever,people are more likely to judge you based on their interactions with you ie. Your attitude is you. You are your attitude.
            At the same time, there are those who wouldn't get to know you firsthand or get to interact with you closely before they conclude that you are something you know you are clearly not. It hurts, its annoying, its very frustrating too, but really, why should you care?
That's their problem, if they don't care to know you, then you should not pay attention to what their opinions are. More than half of the time,  some people don't use their senses anyway so my dear, figure out who you are, improve on your attitude towards others. If you are satisfied and recognise yourself to be a warm, loving, person then what does it matter what other think? B

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